Gym Kid

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gay kid at my gym obsessive?

I saw an argument between 3 kids and this other kid outside my gym so I intervened and got hit so punched this kid back pretty hard and they ran away. 3 days after that this kid (who looks like 15 16 ok and really emo not my scene) has been showing up at the gym with a couple of his mates everyday for like a week and there is like a glass wall dividing the gym and reception and they just sit there drinking tangos and looking at me its pretty off putting. Im actually 20 years old and going to uni in a few months but have a job and have always go to the gym because im into sports so i cant really avoid him. He asks the receptionist about me as well and wanted to know how I broke my finger during boxing and how my haircut is cool and telling her about the fight. He sounds gay im not homophobic or anything but I seem to attract them a lot and kind of want to work out in peace so what should I do. If he wasn’t why would he look at me like that. what should I do?

Lol give them my number! Emos are really attractive!

Haha, just kidding. However, he seems to have clung onto you. Does that mean he is gay? not necessarily. He could have many reasons for watching you. However, I suspect that he kinda is crushing on you. He could be just wanting to get to know you better. Like maybe he wants you to be his friend, like one that will protect him and stuff. Maybe you are his white knight. Maybe he just wants to thank you and stuff. Maybe he is mancrushing on you. Maybe he is gaycrushing on you.

However, like another person on here said, do not change your routine. Changing your routine shows that he is getting to you. However, I differ in that I suggest you do go talk to him. Talking to him will give you better results, but do so in a gentle, nonjudgmental way. You don’t need to jump down his throat.

“Accidentally” run into to him, note that you remember him and say like “I have seen you around here a bunch recently.” If he confesses the truth, then you can explain that you aren’t interested in him, or that when he watches you it makes you nervous. If he doesn’t automatically confess the truth, just play all your cards and explain that you feel like he is watching you and that it makes you nervous. He is probably trying to get to know you better, and is only showing up to your workouts because that is the only place he knows you are.